In a search of financial security...

Everywhere you see, you will encounter posts that say you should do this to increase your passive income or learn and use AI to create an income stream. That is exactly what my sister and I decided to do. This is where we will document everything we did and how much we made. The reason for us documenting everything in written form is that everything is sight-heavy in a way you watch and see. However, at least to me, it feels like when I watch something for a long time, there is a disconnection between my sight and my brain. So, to stimulate my brain using my eyes, writing things out is the way to go. When I read, I imagine the scene and feel the emotions that tantalize me. Hopefully, this is the case for you.   Back to our financial security plan... So, we do "Sister Check-Ins" every week. This is where we talk about everything, literally everything. There will be some family gathering planning or what we are watching (as in movies) and reading. Of course, anything related to...
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Finally, a full day at home

    It has been non-stop since I got back from Mongolia. First, I had to move. I had three weeks before I had to return the apartment. I moved several boxes a day. Then my father came to help. While he was here, we had to drive to Kochi, which took three days. I drove 12 hours each way. Then it was moving week for both me and my cousins. A day before we actually moved the last of the furniture, my cousins got a phone call. It was dreadful news. Their father had passed away due to his illness. As soon as we finished moving, or more like shoving things into the house, they had to prepare to go back to Mongolia for the funeral. That week was horrible.

    Then it was time to look for a parking spot for the car. The house comes with a parking spot, but we have two cars, so we needed to find a spot for the second car. It was a stressful week right after my cousins had left for Mongolia, because I had to park the car at the coin parking since my cousin hadn’t found a spot before he left. I had to park it every evening, and most of the week, I had to park in front of the house because the coin parking was always full. Finally, I found the owner of a parking spot by accident and got a spot a couple of minutes from the house. Don’t worry, I vented to my cousin because it was his car and he needed to find a spot.
    Then, putting things away started. It was a lot of stuff and everywhere. We lived with many boxes for a couple of weeks. Finally, I had to deal with them because my cousins were away. The wife of the cousin is busy with work, even though she works from home. So, I had to clean and organize the entrance and the hallway to make the place more functional and inviting. There are many small things that need to be sorted and placed, but that will come in due time. Right now, I need to figure out and decide where I want to put the microwave. I may have found a solution.
    I am doing all of this while I am going to work every day. It was so tiring. Today is the first day that I am staying home all day and doing some computer work.
    Oh yeah, also, I had my annual physical check-up. Everything is good except, of course, my weight. I am working on that now. Now, everything has settled, I can resume my daily yoga (I couldn’t do it due to my foot injury). Last week, I did four short sessions, and I will do more and longer sessions.

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